A book can change your life. A book with profound insights can definitely change your life. “Getting the Love You Want” was recommended to me by someone who said it saved her marriage. I grabbed it. Read it. It changed the way I lived from then on. Byron Katie's “Loving What Is” has changed more lives than can be counted. “I and Thou” is not “pop” reading, however this theologican is the root of much of today's brilliance.